Janina You can always try to go slow and see where it leads. You can always still have kids with him or he can have a family with you and yours. So, in terms of being in different stages in life..again...he's the exception and probably more ready then most younger guys and even some older guys.. I hope things work out for you :)My dad's 41, he dated a 20 year old for about a year ( who I went to school with).... Then again, if I were to bring a 40 year old man to my father's for supper...father and uncle would be in jail, they would NOT approved.

I've known older guys who were really immature and players and younger guys who were one woman men , open, loving and giving. So how does it make it ok for him to go with a 20 year old? I was married for 21 yrs to a guy 16 yrs my junior - when he left I wondered if his favorite meal was financial security because he returned to bosom of family who are on their last but with massive nest egg that he wouldnt get if he stayed with me - they never approved!

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He’s not interested in a one-night stand, unless you either make that clear upfront, or meet him at his man-child stomping ground of choice (ex: EDM festival, the Roseland Ballroom, etc.).10.

Don’t play stupid when you know what you’re talking about; instead, allow him to teach you something new when you don’t. You will be pleasantly surprised to learn that you don’t need to nose-dive into a face full of pubes -- unless he moonlights as Bozo the Clown.12.

Without those weightier responsibilities, Millennial boys (or, for the most part, the ones I’ve encountered) are living this suspended fratboy mentality.

Thus, we ladies have looked to older men to fulfill those more grown-up needs.

otherwise, they'll come to a point where they start wondering what else is out there. I just don't see the relation in any form or fashion. I had to clean up after her and do all the cooking.

As an almost very young looking and acting 61 year old woman, I get a lot of much younger men's attention but the issue here is that we cannot escape the fact that we are older and that the younger man will still be a man who will go looking for greener pastures, sooner or later.....unless you want to babysit or sit in the corner in a rocking chair while he is painting the town red..for it!!! I prefer women along my age range for now and a female in her's 40's (hell to the NIIII--ZZZZZ oooooo! I met one..your typical young guy...he's actually a lot wiser then a lot of older guys I know and sometimes more logical then me...domesticated and independent..most of the cooking, cleans the dishes, likes kids..looks at them in awe more then me.. But, I mean, whatever makes my parents happy, I'm happy, as long as their S-O aren't younger than me...know me!You know those girls who refuse to date anyone younger than they are, much less anyone their own age? ) And I obviously have the matching theory as to why to go along with it (naturally, it involves being the younger sister).They have a specific, thought-out reasoning as to why they’re only romantically compatible with guys who are older... Throughout my entire love life -- or whatever you want to call what has been 23 years of going through men, some for longer than others -- I have never so much as lusted after any guy who is younger than I am. Without going too much into my dating career, the main factor in all of my relationships -- significant or otherwise -- has always been the man’s age.something I’m sure you all heard as freshman during "Hell Week"), the next logical step is to break down what goes into dating them. A challenge is enticing, but don’t take it too far, lest you become an angry remonstrance.Because those cologne-wearing, Dolce-upgraded, French-press-drinking, 30-something hunks are a whole different animal. He likely believes he’s seen everything, or at least more than you because he’s older, so prove him wrong. He’ll be impressed and allured by your precocious disposition.4. You can’t get totally obliterated Saturday night and ruin the whole next day because -- guess what? Don’t talk about the age difference -- but if he brings it up, play it coy.Smart girls with personality can rejoice after years of griping that guys never give them a chance because the boys have finally grown up! You'll know when he likes you or not; 30-year-olds don’t play games.