If your date becomes your boyfriend then there will be plenty of opportunities for both of you to let your hair down.

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Now you’re armed with these tips you should be feeling a little more confident about embarking on the roller coaster ride that is the dating game but it’s worth remembering (and here’s the twist) that not all guys are the same.

A bad relationship you had in the past should stay exactly there, in the past. So, how many of the above tips will be helpful to you on your next date?

Of course, there are men out there that will disagree but the vast majority of us are scared stiff of the future.

A week in advance, or possibly a month, is usually as far as we are willing to commit after a few weeks or even months of dating.

But just because we are scared of it doesn’t mean we don’t want it.

Take it easy and let him decide when he is ready to commit.

But do you really want a guy you just met to see all those old photos you’ve been tagged in?

Do you really want him to know why your boss upset you so much today or how much weight you want to lose this year?

Never empty your glass – You might be shaking like a leaf and nothing would settle your nerves more than to knock back the glass of wine on your table, but trust me, it’s not worth it.

If you want to stay in control of the date and keep him interested then take it easy and don’t overindulge.

This is a bit of a subconscious thing with men, and although we think we want to spend the night at your place after a first date, in the cold light of the morning after we will be relieved that it didn’t happen.