It’s very unusual for someone to find a good match in their first few attempts.

See it all as experience, not as proof that you’re a loser (or that everyone else is a loser).

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I know that most of my clients and women I speak to on a regular basis can’t.

They are often concerned with a list of qualities and accomplishments that are watered down and often…

Instead of saying that you like sunsets, mention the best sunset you’ve ever seen.

Say which music you like, and your favourite place to see your friends.

They’re looking for someone with brown eyes, short hair, between 5’10” and 6′, from north-east Birmingham, and so on. First, they make the writer sound like a control freak.

Second, they sound like an exact description of the writer’s ex.

Learn from your bad and boring dates and try again.

You’re two grown-ups, not a sugardaddy and his gold-digger.

Your first date is not one of those times, and yet so many of us are hard to read.