Before him, I dated men who were so slow I could watch paint dry waiting for them to commit or to take things to a new level.I quickly grew bored and frustrated with waiting and waiting and waiting. Would you consider yourself someone who likes things to move fast or slow in the dating arena? We fell in love in four days, and on the fifth day, we knew we would be in a long distance relationship, traveling between Colorado and Switzerland.Then there's the issue of dating etiquette, which doesn't appear to exist at all, and since there aren't any rules, dating behavior ranges from polite to rude.

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I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, and I don't want mine hurt either.

Rejections remind me that no one is everyone's cup of tea. Online dating profiles don't really explain a person, and chemistry requires a face-to-face, so online dating has its limitations.

I realized after a brief relationship recently, that I wasn't ready to trust her.

This became clear when a few weeks into the relationship, she wanted to step it up to the next level -- commitment -- and I backed off.

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I've met some fascinating and accomplished women, and I'm becoming more comfortable around the dating process.

So I gave my thoughts a rest and opted out of our brief relationship based entirely on my feelings. But I need to court, because that's when it's still possible to see the other person without rose-colored glasses, and determine whether or not the relationship has legs.

It's also an opportunity to discover the sweet subtleties of a woman's nature.

I was anxious in part because a few weeks just aren't enough for me to feel trusting.

But trying to go slow in a dating world that operates at supersonic speed is difficult, because it's really easy to get caught up in the partnering race.

It does, however, continue to present its challenges.