So instead of giving up on the whole thing – which, as you know – is incredibly shortsighted, given that you have 50 more years on this earth, how about you change focus?Middle-aged divorced men understand what it’s like to be you. I was married for ten years, have four beautiful boys under 9 and have a very fulfilling and successful career.

Printed From: Islami Category: Culture & Community Forum Name: Groups Men (Brothers) Forum Discription: Groups Men (Brothers) URL: TID=16548 Printed Date: 09 November 2017 at am Since the birth of my son, I have grown up.. I'm learning more about my faith and just started praying.

( i was not taught how to pray as a child) We got divorced because he did not treat me right. I singed up to one of those arabic/islamic dating sites.

I am not looking for a provider; I provide very well for myself.

I just want a friend and a companion and someone who I have chemistry and intellectual compatibility with.

Well, let me clarify: I have no shortage of “dates”. I have an outgoing personality and seem to be asked out a lot…

I guess I must be in reasonable shape because NOBODY can guess I’ve even had four kids, or that I’m even 34 (I get asked out by guys in their early 20s- I feel like I should read them a story and tuck them into bed… we usually go on a few dates, everything is going wonderful… I’m not talking about church bells, but just to an actual relationship. I am sick of being treated like a piece of ass, and treated like I must be desperate because I have kids.

I am seriously at the point of giving up on the whole dating thing…

Is it too much of an ask that I could actually meet someone who can see me as a woman, and not just as mother or worse, a bit of bedroom fun? I know Everest is high, but SOME people get up the damn thing, don’t they?

She was smart, she was sexy, she was financially independent – and she had no time to give to me.