Dating tips shy
I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
In general, you will need to carry the relationship up until the point that it is "official." When it has been established (or is otherwise clear) that the two of you are together, then you should start reducing your initiative and letting him take the reins.
As I said, he will probably start to do this on his own anyway, so rather than forcing it, just be cognizant of the transition.
If you are looking for an abundance of devotion, he has it to give.
So, in conclusion, if you are interested in a shy man, start by questioning that feeling.
Comments like "Oh, I thought you were going drive/get the tickets/plan the trip/[insert other traditionally masculine roles here]" can help in priming his confidence if it seems to be lagging and it bothers you.
Dating a shy man takes a lot of initial investment for an uncertain outcome.
If a girl doesn't approach or initiate contact with a shy man, nothing will happen.
This is true, but handling this situation isn't as simple as you might think...
Though he knows his own limitations (as prescribed by his shyness), he also knows what a typical man is "supposed to do." So he recognizes, too, when you are doing it for him.