Too many times Christian couples (myself included) simply follow the world’s standards on finding a spouse without every questioning what the bible teaches.

Baker humbly states his opinion on how a spouse should be found, but he emphasizes being a godly person in search of a godly spouse using biblical wisdom more than any specific method.

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Section 1 teaches the foundations of pursuing a spouse, but section 2 is where the highlighter and the notepad should definitely come for singles who are ready to use their singleness for God’s glory.

Baker gives some very wise (and fatherly) teaching on how singles can live wisely, use wisdom in relationships, make wise choices about when to marry, and to discern that God’s providence is trustworthy.

If you are looking to help single people in your life set out on a path to a God-Glorifying marriage, Marry Wisely, Marry Well is one of many excellent resources to consider as you do so.

I received a free copy of this book in exchange for an honest review for Cross Focused Reviews.

I wish this book had been written when I was still single because it would have been a major help when I was pursuing my wife.

Marry Wisely, Marry Well is a book that I will add to the biblical counseling section of my bookshelf for any pre-marital counseling I do with couples pursuing marriage.

Have you ever failed to read the subtitle of a book only to realize that you missed the main point before you ever started?

If you read Ernie Baker’s Marry Wisely, Marry Well: A Blueprint for Personal Preparation without considering the subtitle, you could be missing the most important aspect of this fantastic book! ) want a book that will tell them how to find the perfect spouse, start the perfect marriage, and give them a pain-free path to end their loneliness. This is a book about personal preparation for marriage and using God-given wisdom to a find a godly spouse.

Learn to make a wise choice of a spouse, and how to start prepar Does marriage matter anymore?

If so, is it even possible to have a stable marriage? Is there anything to work on now, even before being in a relationship?

An Excellent Resource As a married man reading this book, I see so many aspects of my life that are still in need of improvement.