One of the biggest issues with mature single women is the lack of older single men to date. My answer: "There is no place in the United States that I'm aware of—where older men and women mingle in relatively equal numbers to meet members of the opposite sex." (If there were such a place, it'd be so packed, people wouldn't be able to get in the door.) Some women are discouraged because there is no easy way to meet men.

Natalie, early 50s, Dana Point, California, says, "There aren't many places here for singles aged 50-60 to go." And it's not just in Dana Point or California, single men are lacking throughout the United States.

To meet them requires an effort many are unwilling to make.

And even if they make the effort, there is no guarantee of success, although their chances of meeting a potential mate will increase. They need to meet new people, which means they must get out of the house and get active.

And when they meet new people, they will make new friends.

An older single woman named Becky shared her story about the importance of meeting new people.

Women over 50 want men who know what they're doing.

In today's times, older women want men that can keep up with their sex drive.

What they don't want is a wimpy guy that needs a mommy or nurse.

Looking at the younger men today, the over 50 woman is not interested in a child that wears his pants so low that his underwear is exposed, Older women want a clean, good smelling guy who knows how to dress.

Either way they want a guy that is going to satisfy them physically and mentally.