Cutting off the child will only cut you off from the wheel of life.You won’t get to see him develop into his adult self.

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Share in a comment below some ways you can apply these steps to your situation.

”The woman talking with me is more than a little upset. Yet she swears he is the love of her life and she defends him!

After reading them, or discussing them with their boyfriend or girlfriend, they may recognize on their own that this is not the right relationship for them.

Finally, it’s important to understand that your older teen will soon be an adult, and your adult child is just that: an adult.

“We have always emphasized how important it is that he marry someone of our faith. At times, it can seem like the biggest mistake your child could make.

Yet he’s serious about a girl from another country and culture. At times, it can threaten the very fabric of family life and the larger family culture.

For example, you might say, “I noticed last week that you skipped your classes so you could spend more time with John. ” Of course, then ask follow up questions as necessary so that they can come to their own conclusion about the wisdom, or lack of it, in their decision.

It’s important for your child to come to those conclusions themselves.

Talk through different solutions together—ask your child questions like, “So, given these concerns, what do you think we should do?