Anyways, I’m enjoying it so far (when I have the time for it) Give it a try! I don’t really get why you’d monitor private messages so closely —- especially if the parties are “of age”. I’m just saying that I’m 31 yrs old, and I feel I should have the right to speak to anyone however I’d like to.It also seems to be really safe and the team does what it can to keep it that way! :) I get it’s for safety, but I’m not sure how this keeps me safe.

So the middle ground here is to know only as much as is necessary, and in this case you have a right to demand that information from your wife. Tell her first that you love her as she is, and that you have realized that finding out intricate details about her past life is not going to help your relationship. Between the two of you, you might have issues (every couple has).

But to outsiders, you must put up a joint front – you must look like one inseparable unit.

I find myself wondering about the details like how she managed to have sex before marriage with anyone in a small town, how deeply in love she must’ve been to have disregarded the most important family restriction, whether she gave him farewell sex etc.

She hasn’t confessed anything about any sex before marriage to this date in spite of my insistence.

The only way knowing everything about one’s spouse’s past life can help is in tackling nosy outsiders like this friend, eager to spill the beans and laugh as the two of you shred your married life to pieces.

That’s something you have a right to protect yourself against. Then mention to her that, at the same time you don’t want to receive info about her past life from outsiders and look like a fool.

As of today I’ve planned to post questions about her past relationship(s) in the confessions page of her school. However, there’s another aspect to this in your case.

You’ve mentioned one of her friends has tried dropping you hints about her past.

Common rules for all anonymous chat rooms: - All the secrets you share in Anti Chat, must stay in Anti Chat- Teens aged less than 17 are not allowed to download and use this app- All international and private chats must remain free of trolling, bullying and agitating. You are joined into a chat room with all these people you dont even know.

If you see any suspicious content, press the avatar of it's author and then «Complain»- Straight personalities may be banned from chats marked as "lesbians only" or "gays only", as well as gays and lesbians may be banned from "straight only" places- This app can be used for random chatting with strangers, but it is restricted to trade nudes with the people you do not know as they may be offended- Horny adults are not welcome to use this app for sexting purposes, as you may be easily banned from the system for sharing inappropriate sexually explicit content with strangers during your text role play games- For your own safety reasons it is forbidden to mention any personal data, including other social networking or dating apps- Follow the General User agreement: you ready to start meeting new people online, having fun and killing time? I think thats a good idea cause that makes it easier to find new friends upon joining into it.

So far this app has been very fun for me and I have yet to have any issues.