The Victorian precept that a lady "never explains or complains" is followed rigidly.

" For both freelance writers and those that hire them, that frequently asked question lacks a simple answer.

Fees charged by professional writers vary according to the work involved.

Writing this book is a dream come true, for many reasons.

On a professional level, it's the opportunity to extensively investigate something I'm deeply passionate about.

Sacrificing one love to acheive career success is a form of settling -- and more women contemplate that route than would dare admit to it."Settling" is a dirty word when it comes love, and for good reason.

There's nothing more comforting and exhilarating than feeling as though you've met someone who is your equal, complement and true partner in life.

Near the end of the section there is generally one curt letter of refusal to a marriage proposal."The rules and suggestions for courtship and romance occupy most of the space in Victorian etiquette and letter writing books.

There are usually flowery forms for written proposals from the suitor as well as a plethora of gushing acceptances from the bride-elect.

You can read those stories over at Teen Vogue, or see both my MBTI work and past relationship columns at Yahoo. Please place “YAHOO QUESTION” in the subject line, so I don’t miss it.